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Pensive they sit, and roll their languid eyes, Nibble their toast, and cool their tea with sighs, Or else forget the purpose of the night, Forget their tea, forget their appetite. See with cross'd arms they sit, ah! happy crew, The fire is going out and no one rings For coals, and therefore no coals Betty brings. A fly is in the milk-pot, must he die By a humane society?

No, no; there Mr. Werter takes his spoon, Inserts it, dips the handle, and lo! soon The little straggler, sav'd from perils dark, Across the teaboard draws a long wet mark. Arise! take snuffers by the handle, There's a large cauliflower in each candle. A winding-sheet, ah me! I must away To No. 7, just beyond the circus gay.

'Alas, my friend! your coat sits very well; Where may your tailor live?' 'I may not tell. O pardon me, I'm absent now and then. Where might my tailor live? I say again I cannot tell, let me no more be teaz'd, He lives in Wapping, might live where he pleas'd.'

John Keats

Dressing for a black tie event can be intimidating for many men. Not only do you want to look your best, but you also need to make sure that your outfit is appropriate and follows the rules of etiquette. While it may seem like there are a lot of things to consider when getting dressed up, with the right information and tips, it doesn’t have to be so overwhelming. Here are some tips on how to dress appropriately for a black tie event as a man.

Dressing for a black tie event can be intimidating for many men.

When selecting an outfit for this type of occasion, remember that less is more
Dressing For a Black Tie Event

It's important to start off with the basics: what exactly constitutes “black tie attire?” Generally speaking, black tie means wearing formal clothing such as tuxedos or dark suits with white shirts and accessories like bow ties or neckties in solid colors or subtle patterns. When selecting an outfit for this type of occasion, remember that less is more—it’s better to err on the side of caution than make too bold of a statement with bright colors or flashy patterns.

A classic tuxedo should fit well (not too tight nor too loose), hang straight from shoulder-to-waistline, and if possible should include satin accents near lapels and pockets. Avoid any clothes with large logos or words, and always make sure that your shoes are polished. Finally, remember to wear a cummerbund or vest if the event is more formal. When it comes to accessories, there are certain rules you should follow as well.

The ideal black tie look calls for a bow tie, and while you can opt for a traditional black model, colors like navy or burgundy are also acceptable. If you’re wearing a necktie instead, then it should be made of silk and have either a plain solid color or subtle pattern. A pocket square is also a great way to add some personality without going overboard—choose one with a color and fabric that complements your outfit.

Finally, don’t forget about the finishing touches: cufflinks or studs to complete your shirt, and a lapel pin for an extra bit of flair. With these tips in mind, you can look great at any black tie event without breaking any of the rules. Whether you go for a classic tuxedo or something a bit more daring, the most important thing is to make sure your outfit fits the occasion. So go ahead and get ready to dazzle! Good luck!

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